If he has the 1st ancestor aura he can be him and take that girl as wife... She waited 1000 years for him to be back.

He does have a point

I think it would've been possible for him to fall in love with Yuning if it hadn't been for how forceful she was during the time when he was trying to escape with his sworn brother. His opinion of her at that time DID truly change.

@DizzyDazzle

Even more common in Chinese/Korean novels is that if the girl wants you, you don't want her. You want the one who doesn't openly desire you/actually hates you. And is typically soft and demure and submissive.

Fuck the ships lady shan'guan is a demon and what’s her relationship with the first generation ancestor

Can't blame him. Just like what people always say, "love is blind"

That seems to be a classic trope of Chinese storytelling: pining for a girl you barely know/just met. It's very Shakespeare (Romeo and Juliet), unrealistic, and kinda lame. I'm not saying he has to be in love with Yuning, or he has to not care about Xueyun, but to talk about love for her is ridiculous, and feels shallow.

Yea its so damn strange, he barely even knows the other chick as well .Pssh fool, when she leaves or is in danger im sure he will have a change of heart.

Hilarious seeing the MC talk about love when the girl who has literally been going through hell and back for him has been right next to him.

Who gives a shit about Xueyun? What about Yuning? Why does this asshole keep neglecting the superior waifu?